People spend their lives looking for their soul mate in the hope that they will succeed in building the perfect bond and ending with the true or the true. But sometimes things do not go the way we planned. Sometimes even if we find the cousin soul, it may not be a single. Is it not absurd that you have finally met your soul, but you can not do anything? Does fate tailor any special plans for you?
Sometimes people find their loved ones, but they are already in a serious relationship or marriage. It may lead you to doubt the concept of related souls. It does not make sense for fate to create anyone for you, and not to be together. The absurdity of the situation kills the meaning of the pursuit of the kinship soul. Well, is there any reason for their existence at all? Does every person have a soul mate?
What to do when your soul mate is not a single person?
Only fate can be determined when two related souls are to be met. It’s possible that when you get to know them, they already have a relationship with someone else. Perhaps the reason for this is to get to know and understand what they really want for themselves and what the loving partner requires.
What follows is not at all simple. The complexity of these circumstances is not pointless. There is a high probability that they will bring with you a lot of knowledge and experience with their current relationship that will be of great benefit to your future relationship. What you will know at the moment when they are with someone else will only help them see you with different eyes and realize how much their life would be better if you were with you. At first, it might seem to you to be true to be true, but later you will understand the importance of these events.
Some people can not believe in the idea of related souls and are not convinced that they are destined to spend life with the right person for them. Meeting with their loved soul can surprise them and cause loss of control. So it is better to go through some things and to deal with the challenges of a love affair, so that they can be prepared before they experience real love.
On the other hand, people are very upset when they see their loved ones with someone else. In such a case, they blame themselves, even though they have no control over the situation. They even begin to cursing their lives! However, they need to know that there is a great reason for everything that happens to them. You just have to believe in yourself and have confidence in your destiny when it comes to things you can not control.
Your presence constantly reminds them what they could have in life. Through your presence, the universe shows you the real fall with the related soul. It’s the same as when people get stuck in bad relationships and need external help and support to get out of the situation and realize they should never accept less than they deserve. As it may seem to you without meaning that your soul mate is in relation to another person, do not forget that perhaps you are their light that needs to give them strength and lead them to freedom.
It is normal that they will need time to get out of the relationship, especially if it is a person who does not believe in related souls. Such people believe that they should not give up the relationship because they have invested time, emotions and energy in the partner. They may not attach enough importance to private life and neglect it. The love you have for yourself will not be enough to get rid of. But, as we have already mentioned, all this may be part of the great preparation that has to happen before the true one begins. It takes a lot of patience and endurance to change things, but it’s worth fighting.
Sometimes you will have to come to terms with the fact that some people simply can not end their relationship. They may not be able to make the right decision or be brave enough to make the first step. Empathy and compassion sometimes prevent us from putting our interests first.
So, what do you need to do when things do not go the way you want and you can not change anything? Should you continue to fight for them or is it better to accept only their friendship? The truth is that there is not one correct answer to these questions, because everything depends on the circumstances. All related souls differ from each other and the same rules do not apply to all.
Nevertheless, it can be concluded that if your soul mate is not a single person, you do not have to take it as something negative. Watch the bigger picture. You must not allow this to be the cause of your sorrow. The most important thing is to make the right decisions while fighting for your soul mate, and not to win it at all costs.